Relationships are tough work. Don’t let anyone else ever tell you otherwise. There are so many things that could be a point of conflict between you and your heavy other. It could be the little things that provoke you. Like the way he always leaves the toilet seat up, or how there’s a pile of mail on the table that’s weeks old. Or maybe its the pile of dirty socks that he never appears to see. These are the minor things that over time start to provoke and irritate you. Eventually they become giant things and then you’re no longer together and she has now your ex. But what if you want to get your ex back?